LOVE( has to be earned)

da sweetness of life is not in the breaths u have taken it is in the fact that how many moments u have lived that have taken ur breath away.life for all its worth is beautiful and i am not any dreamy guy who goes on sayin that everything in life is so..wonderful and all the peple we are so nice.i am a pissimist.but i have changed cos life is worth living u. Just have to know in what way u want to live ur life.u have to find what u love.what u believe in? what is the reason of your existence.it can be many things .....u can find any motive and u can love anything as long as it has ur reason in it and u love it .but to find that love and to follow ur heart takes all the courage in the world. wait, it wouldnt be tough cos once u have found ur love everything will seem possible!
.love has really lost its meaning . love has become a synonym for whatever we lust after every object we dont deserve .we have defined it in such a narrow sense that we have lost the the feel of love.we have turned it into a vulgar word used to staisfy our needs. it is not in someone's heart .love is not that is unconditional..love can never be without a reason( and i will kill da one who said love at first sight)
what is love? it is the logic by which we all should live our lives.what we love should be our right to exist.while i am no fool to go on and define love cos everyone have there own defination of love.but let me try to say what i mean or what is love to me. love is the values i believe in ...it is the code of life by which i shall live by.it is in everything that i have rightfully earned.it is mine.....it is my ' love'.love is a selfish act it is not what they tell u "that love is in sacrifice and suffering" but love is in joy and in celebration of being alive.love is what is in u.they say that love is without a reason but when we love there are reasons behind it.
true love is when we find something that all our reason are existing in that one thing.love is not anybody? it is the one we live by for our own happiness.joy is the giving of love not pain.love shouldnt be defined as realtionship between two people.love exists because two people believe in the same set of values and have the same view of the world. In eachother they reflect thier world.Their reason for existence...love is pragmatice ...it is logical.........love is in 'work'......love has to be earned .It cannot be given away.u have to earn ur love bcos if u dont earn or work for ur love, u will never value that kind of love that is based on charity.u will never know what value it does hold and what meaning it does have.when u earn ur love u feel that it is u who made it possible.u deserve that love..it can be anything ...job...life...beloved.If u dont earn it was never yours.U just mouched your way to it.The thing u loved will not mean to u anything it is just zero may be ur lust for it will be satisfied but u will never know what is the worth of it and how to be worthy of it............... well whatever love is to u may u live by it
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